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Before Your Virginia Wedding, The Gimmel Engagement Ring

Long before your 21st-century Virginia wedding, there was a time when no ceremony was needed, only a promise. And to symbolize that promise between the 14th and 18th century, there was the popular Gimmel engagement ring.

Worn Apart Until the Marriage Starts

Gimmel Wedding Ring
By Geni – Photo by user:geni, GFDL, https://commons.wikimedia.org/w/index.php?curid=47780885

The man and the woman would wear their respective engagement rings until they finally were to begin their lives together as a wedded couple. Then the bride would put her husband’s ring on her finger, rejoining the two together.

Sometimes there were more than two rings to join.

Sometimes More Than Just Two

In the case of three rings, one ring was worn by the groom, one worn by the bride, and the third was worn by the witness who would then give the third ring to the bride as well.

However, although there were times when there were more than two interlocking rings, the word gimlett comes from the Latin word gemmellus meaning twin.  You may recall gemini on the astrological charts being twins.

Together Forever Until They Are Parted

In the case that one were to take a long journey or if the husband and wife were to be separated for a lengthy time, the wife would give one ring to her husband.

Until Death Do They Part

gimmel ring skeleton (2)
A photo posted by Xiao Wang Jewelry (@xiaowangjewelry) on Oct 19, 2015 at 8:56am dPDT, https://www.instagram.com/p/9BmYNevVT2/

Within the interlocking rings were hidden quotes and symbols, such as in the one featured above which is on display at the New York Metropolitan Museum. Inside it are the figures of a baby and a skeleton, then the quote that translates, “Whom God has joined together, let no man tear asunder.”

gimmel ring skeleton (3)
A closer up of photo posted by Xiao Wang Jewelry (@xiaowangjewelry) on Oct 19, 2015 at 8:56am dPDT, https://www.instagram.com/p/9BmYNevVT2/

Other hidden symbols were much sweeter, such as an iconic heart hidden under the protection of two hands.

Gimmel Rings are still popular today and can be found on antique dealers’ websites and websites such as Etsy.

By TheRajahPress on Esty, https://www.etsy.com/listing/233522730/v-i-n-t-a-g-e-9k-375-fede-gimmel-ring?ref=market

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The author: Dawn Van Ness

Dawn Dickson Van Ness grew up at the beach and has published her work in print and online. With a BA in English and a MS in Mass Communications, she has used writing and multimedia to promote artists, art shows, writers, small businesses, and other self-employed individuals by building websites and maintaining social media pages. She feels most fulfilled when she is helping others achieve their dreams, which includes writing self-help and steps-to-success articles for various websites. It seems a natural fit for this wife and mother of two to write features that help soon-to-be wed couples. For more about Dawn, go to www.dawnvanness.me.
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